SMil has several groups for different interests, called “interessegrupper” (interest groups). Some of the groups are about active BDSM, while others are more about information, or have a more social purpose.

Some of the member offerings are not established groups, but just coordinated recurring events. The groups are one of the strongholds of SMil, as it gives a varied palette of offerings, arranged by the members themselves. This is the essence of SMil: An organisation for the members, created and driven by the members.

Open and closed groups

Open groups

Open groups are groups where you can come without an invitation, as long as you are a member of SMil. Of course some groups have requirements for participants, such as age, sexual orientation or activity, but if you identify yourself with the group, you simply show up at the group’s events.

Closed groups

A closed group is not as closed as it may sound. When a group is closed, it means that you must be approved by the group leaders before attending. Most often, it is agreed that you participate once as a mutual test.

It sounds more mysterious than it really is. The group may simply try to provide a secure atmosphere, or manage a reasonable gender distribution. Or the group wants to monitor the flow of new members into the group, so that new members can be integrated into the group before even more new ones arrive. But ask the group.

If you want to participate in the events of a closed group, send a mail to the group. The mail address can be found on the contact page.

The groups

Where relevant, the Danish name is shown in parentheses to help you find it on the contact page.

The workshops

SMil has two workshops: the latex workshop (Latexworkshoppen) and the leather workshop (Læderworkshoppen). The workshops are open for all members to create tools and latex clothes. We create whips, cuffs, collars, latex clothes – yes, only your imagination is the limit. We have all the tools, you only pay for the materials. Good templates and some experience are available, so if you’re inexperienced in working with leather or latex, help is available.

The photo group (Fotogruppen)

Pictures say more than 1000 words. This is true in the BDSM and fetish world as well. The group is open for everyone who love to make pictures, and not at least those who want to model for pictures.

SMug – the place for the young BDSM people

SMug is the youth group of SMil Copenhagen. It is for everyone who wishes to enjoy BDSM amongst people of the same age. Whether you are S, m, switch, into everything or just half of it, completely experienced, or new in the game, SMug is your place if you are between 18 and 35. If you are over 35, you can still attend if your partner is below 35.

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Dark Sensibility

Dark Sensibility is a group of experienced BDSM people in all ages, with years of experience in the black universe.

The group’s goal is to promote and enhance the safe and clear framework for serious and clear-cut BDSM people, whether they are dominants, masochists or submissives.
Furthermore to treat each other with respect and accept the differences of people, and the different sexual preferences.

 The Latex Lodge (Latexlogen)

The smell, the sound and the visual impression. A body totally covered in latex and transformed into one big erogenous zone.

The tight latex caressing your body, restricting movement and denying your skin the ability to breathe freely. The loose latex clinging to your body caressing you even at the slightest movement.

The suppressed craving and deeply felt need to again and again dress up, wear and wrap yourself in this wonderful material…

Do you recognize yourself?

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Peer Rope Copenhagen

Peer Rope Copenhagen (PRC) was established in 2010 and is an open group in SMil Copenhagen, where we typically meet 1st Sunday and 4th Wednesday of the month. The purpose is to offer qualified bondage tuition, as well as a safe place to meet and tie for all members of SMil and their guests (according to SMil’s rules for guests).


Motto: Make ropes dirty again

Purpose: Purpose of this group is to focus on rope and play, how to use rope safely and securely in a play session, being gentle or hard.

The focus is not on the traditional bondage, but the application of these. Emphasis will be placed on the basics and safety being in order, but it is the dynamics between rigger and model that are central to the group. So it is not a group to learn fundamental ties. For that, we suggest Peer Rope Copenhagen.

Topics that can be touched, on are e.g. Transitions, Predicaments, Demonstrations, Torture Bindings, Playing with Ropes, Fuckties, and more.

Target group: The group is open to everyone, but it is expected that participants know the fundamental ties, and bind in a safe way.


SMag aims to arrange 3-4 annual parties for all members of our lovely association. Contact us if you have questions, suggestions, rice or praise for our parties. Find our email address on the contact page.

 Copenhagen FemDom Society

Copenhagen FemDom Society is a sanctuary where Dommes can meet and exchange experiences. We offer an environment in which both new, inexperienced and experienced Dommes can feel safe and get answers to any questions (there are no stupid questions!). Everything takes place on a voluntary basis. The individual Domme controls independently her own slave / sub, and in which activities he will participate.

 FemDom Conference Copenhagen

FemDom Conference Copenhagen is a vision and an intention of becoming the most comprehensive educational event dedicated to FemDom and Female Led Relationships.

Our team of Dominant Women and submissives are committed to spread knowledge about Female Domination. We aim to organize FemDom focused events, and an entire weekend of inspiring talks and workshops on various topics that are speaking to your mind, body, and soul.

Our mission is to inspire lifelong learning, advance knowledge and strengthen our relationships within the FemDom Community.

Do you want to join us on this journey? Send an email for further information.


MasterGames is a closed interest group for Dominant Men. The group’s primary purpose is to create a forum for mutual inspiration, exchange of experiences. At Mastergames events, group members can invite their subordinates along.

At the group’s closed events, there will often be a high degree of interaction between the participants, which is why great mutual trust is required between the Gentlemen. Normally, membership of the group will be based on invitation and membership of the group will therefore only be offered if the applicant is known by several of the group members and these will vouch for the applicant’s.

The group arranges various events where D / s is in the forefront, and everyone is expected to participate actively.

The group will regularly hold open D / s evenings with established dress code and common house rules. At these events, all Dominant Men and their submissive are welcome, however, there may be a limit to the number of participants.

Mastergames also has other activities such as HerreLoungen which is a meeting place for Dominant men where we talk about the topics that concern us and share experiences. In the Men’s Lounge, the subjects are not usually participants, but may in special cases be invited to the individual event.


Smash! is the SMil Copenhagen group for transgender, lesbian and bisexual women who are attracted to each other. We will regularly host play nights and other events such as practical workshops, film nights and parties. Events will be announced in the calendar.


PeerSub is a group of submissive women where we have the opportunity to get to know each other, share experiences and support each other. Whether you are a slave girl, a brat, a masochist or something else, you are welcome as long as you see yourself as a bottom in the BDSM game.

The group is meant as a safe haven where we accept each other and our differences – and where you can deal with things that may be difficult to talk about. Especially as new to BDSM (or in the universe) there is a lot to relate to and learn, and we will do our best to help with that.


Spanko! is an interest group in SMil Copenhagen dedicated to all spankophile members who have a special interest in everything that involves “classical” spanking: Old-fashioned upbringing, behavioural correction, role-playing, consequences, over-the-knee spankings, corporal punishment, domestic discipline, use of old-fashioned remedies such as canes / tawses / paddles / hairbrushes / belts, corner time, detention and other similar glories.

 Copenhagen Ageplay

Ageplay is becoming a popular theme in kink communities around the world. That’s why we wish to create a group, where all who share this interest can join and connect with each other, share their experiences or get some inspiration.

What is ageplay?
Ageplay is a form of roleplaying in which an individual acts or treats another as if they were a different age. Ageplay is roleplaying between adults, and involves consent from all participants.Ageplay can be sexual or non-sexual, it all depends on what people agree to within their relationship. Some people also find themself age regressing.
Portraying any age can be the goal of ageplay, from babies, to the elderly.
The group is for all with an interest in ageplay of any kind. You are welcome no matter whether you are experienced or a beginner.

You have to be at least 18 years old to participate in this group and we do not tolerate any kind of content that has to do with minors. Find our email address on the contact page.


Singletail is an offer for members of SMiL who already have a singletail.

It is an experience group that focuses on exchanging experiences and sources of training.

We will also use the SMil’s premises to practice swinging the whip. It will be against static targets, as most do not have the option at home without destroying lamps and trinkets.

The group is a closed group, as we want to ensure that the members present have the necessary cubic meters available.

Contact the group at


Our focus is on perverted games. This is a group where there’s room to stuff someone’s ass with marshmellows, where knives is a valid sex-toy and where no one will bat a eye if you think that the game becomes better if you wear a Carebear-costume. And if there’s blood on the floor the acceptable comment is “They’ll probably clean up after themselves?”

Perverted is a group where we focus on the scenes and it is expected that you show up with one or more playdates. As our focus is on playing, alcohol will only be permitted after the fun and games. You may however obtain a permit for play with bubbly liquids if used in unconventional ways.

To give everyone the best experience possible all doors will remain open. You can naturally use the “Closed Rooms”, but when you attend a Perverted-event the doors will remain open.

Perverted permits photography of your own scene if every participant consents – sometimes a scenario is too fantastic not to capture for posterity.

There is no dress code for Perverted. You can show up in jeans or dressed like Dr. Frank’n’Furter – dress however you want and for what fits your game.

Perverted is a closed group. To participate you have to write to us. You can see our mail address at the contact page. To be accepted you have to be invited to participate in an event to see if you fit in. If you don’t follow the group’s rules or don’t fit in, you will naturally be notified and will not be invited to further events. The group reserves the right to refuse anyone an invitation.


Legegruppen is an open group with a focus on play and creativity.

It can be arranged playfights, where you playfully fight with each other on the mats.
These can be themed photo shoots, where the focus is on creating images within a specific frame.
And it can be an artistic event where the focus may be on playing with paint or rope to achieve a certain expression.

Legegruppen allows taking pictures of its own play if all participants agree with it. Art and creativity are best when shared.

Legegruppen is an open group where everyone can join.