Rules for SMug
While our beautiful participants are always well behaved, we’ve decided that putting it online might make it clearer for people, who has not participated before. Thus, we hope that you read the rules before you come <3

As SMug is part of SMiL, we have both rules as a collective organization, but also ones specific to our club, thus can be organized in following categories:
a) General Rules of SMiL
b) Rules specific to SMug
c) Guests over 35

General rules of SMiL:

1. No phones, leave them in your jacket or one of the lockers in the foyer.
   Bring a credit card or cash

2. No opening doors to closed playrooms, and leave the doors open when you leave the room.

3. You may look, but not stare. When others play – give them space and only approach if previously been given consent or they approach you.

4. Discretion, what happens in SMiL stays in SMiL. No discussion of activities in ways that would describe another members. If you meet someone you’ve met at SMiL in public, pretend you do not know them, unless otherwise agreed.

5. CIRCUS, the universal stop word. If you hear anyone say it, let the barstaff or room responsible know.

6. As a member you can only bring 2 guests. Guests are a extension of you so ensure you can vouch for them.

7. We want everyone to feel welcome so no Sexism, Racism, Homophobia etc.

Rules Specific to SMug

1. No play in the lounge. Cuddle up for aftercare or just hang out and chat!
2. There will be ID checks at the door, to make sure you are within the age bracket 18-35
3. It costs 20 crowns to participate in all our events, which will be paid in the door

Guests over 35:

1. Only members of SMiL can bring a guest over 35
2. The member (within our age bracket) must send us a message (on fetlife or to smug@smilkbh.dk) beforehand asking for permission to bring them. Any messages from the older party will be ignored.
3. If a guest over 35 that has not gotten permission arrives, they will be turned away. There will be ID checks.

Breaching any rules may lead to banning from our future events!

The participants at SMug events usually have quite different levels of experience and interests within BDSM. Some have been practising for years, others just bring their curiosity and may even be unsure what roles they desire most. Some identify as Tops, Doms or Sadists. Some as bottoms, submissives or masochists. Some as switches and some like other labels and some do not find any of them fitting. Whatever category you belong to you are welcome as long as you share our common interest in BDSM!

So what to expect at your first SMug event? Well if it’s a party we usually offer to show you around while explaining the basic rules of behavior in SMil if you are not already familiar with them. Many times we also facilitate some kind of icebreaker activity that you can join if you want to meet the other guests. Sometimes we encourage our guests to participate in prepared play activities and sometimes we have planned some kinky entertainment for the evening.

Some attendants bring a partner (or partners) but many show up looking to meet new people and maybe find a play partner. While you might experience people playing during the evening there is usually also a lot of people that mainly come to socialise and speak with like-minded people. For those who do play, SMil offers both the opportunity of public and private play areas.