{"id":3871,"date":"2018-06-21T14:18:06","date_gmt":"2018-06-21T14:18:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/smilkbh.dk\/smug\/?page_id=3871"},"modified":"2026-03-21T13:33:05","modified_gmt":"2026-03-21T13:33:05","slug":"rules","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/smilkbh.dk\/smug\/about-us\/rules\/","title":{"rendered":"Rules"},"content":{"rendered":"\n[et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; fullwidth=&#8221;on&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.0.7&#8243; custom_margin=&#8221;0px||0px||false|false&#8221; custom_margin_tablet=&#8221;0px|||&#8221; custom_margin_phone=&#8221;&#8221; custom_margin_last_edited=&#8221;on|phone&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;0|0px|0px|0px|false|false&#8221; box_shadow_style=&#8221;preset3&#8243; global_module=&#8221;3632&#8243; saved_tabs=&#8221;all&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_fullwidth_menu menu_id=&#8221;11&#8243; fullwidth_menu=&#8221;on&#8221; dropdown_menu_bg_color=&#8221;#000000&#8243; mobile_menu_bg_color=&#8221;#000000&#8243; logo=&#8221;https:\/\/smilkbh.dk\/smug\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Smug-gold-small-website.png&#8221; logo_url=&#8221;https:\/\/smilkbh.dk\/smug\/&#8221; logo_max_width=&#8221;59%&#8221; logo_max_height=&#8221;112px&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; menu_font=&#8221;ABeeZee|700||on|||||&#8221; menu_text_color=&#8221;rgba(255,244,226,0.76)&#8221; menu_font_size=&#8221;18px&#8221; background_color=&#8221;#262626&#8243; use_background_color_gradient=&#8221;on&#8221; background_color_gradient_stops=&#8221;rgba(0,0,0,0.9) 0%|rgba(12,1,1,0.63) 100%&#8221; background_color_gradient_start=&#8221;rgba(0,0,0,0.9)&#8221; background_color_gradient_end=&#8221;rgba(12,1,1,0.63)&#8221; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221; background_blend=&#8221;multiply&#8221; text_orientation=&#8221;right&#8221; width=&#8221;100%&#8221; max_width=&#8221;100%&#8221; custom_margin=&#8221;0px|0px|0px|0px|false|false&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;1px|13px|5px|50px|false|false&#8221; 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background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;|||&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; custom_padding__hover=&#8221;|||&#8221;][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; text_font=&#8221;Poppins||||||||&#8221; text_text_color=&#8221;rgba(255,255,255,0.8)&#8221; text_font_size=&#8221;18px&#8221; text_line_height=&#8221;1.8em&#8221; header_font=&#8221;Poppins|600||on|||||&#8221; header_text_color=&#8221;#ffffff&#8221; header_font_size=&#8221;48px&#8221; header_line_height=&#8221;1.4em&#8221; header_3_font=&#8221;Poppins|600|||||||&#8221; header_3_font_size=&#8221;36px&#8221; header_3_line_height=&#8221;1.4em&#8221; background_layout=&#8221;dark&#8221; max_width=&#8221;600px&#8221; module_alignment=&#8221;left&#8221; custom_margin=&#8221;|||&#8221; locked=&#8221;off&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]<h3><span style=\"color: #fff4e2;\">Rules of SMug<\/span><\/h3>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section][et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;50.546875px|0px|50px|0px|false|false&#8221; locked=&#8221;off&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_row _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;5px|0px|93.3px|0px|false|false&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;|||&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; custom_padding__hover=&#8221;|||&#8221;][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.27.6&#8243; text_font=&#8221;Poppins||||||||&#8221; text_text_color=&#8221;#FFFFFF&#8221; text_font_size=&#8221;17px&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]<p>Rules for SMug<br \/>While our beautiful participants are always well behaved, we&#8217;ve decided that putting it online might make it clearer for people, who has not participated before. Thus, we hope that you read the rules before you come &lt;3<\/p>\n<p>As SMug is part of SMiL, we have both rules as a collective organization, but also ones specific to our club, thus can be organized in following categories:<br \/>a) General Rules of SMiL<br \/>b) Rules specific to SMug<br \/>c) Guests over 35<\/p>\n<p>General rules of SMiL:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>No phones, leave them in your jacket or one of the lockers in the foyer.<br \/>Bring a credit card or cash<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>2. No opening doors to closed playrooms, and leave the doors open when you leave the room.<\/p>\n<p>3. You may look, but not stare. When others play &#8211; give them space and only approach if previously been given consent or they approach you.<\/p>\n<p>4. Discretion, what happens in SMiL stays in SMiL. No discussion of activities in ways that would describe another members. If you meet someone you\u2019ve met at SMiL in public, pretend you do not know them, unless otherwise agreed.<\/p>\n<p>5. CIRCUS, the universal stop word. If you hear anyone say it, let the barstaff or room responsible know.<\/p>\n<p>6. As a member you can only bring 2 guests. Guests are a extension of you so ensure you can vouch for them.<\/p>\n<p>7. We want everyone to feel welcome so no Sexism, Racism, Homophobia etc.<\/p>\n<p>Rules Specific to SMug<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>No play in the lounge. Cuddle up for aftercare or just hang out and chat!<\/li>\n<li>There will be ID checks at the door, to make sure you are within the age bracket 18-35<\/li>\n<li>It costs 20 crowns to participate in all our events, which will be paid in the door<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Guests over 35:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>Only members of SMiL can bring a guest over 35<\/li>\n<li>The member (within our age bracket) must send us a message (on fetlife or to <a href=\"mailto:smug@smilkbh.dk\">smug@smilkbh.dk<\/a>) beforehand asking for permission to bring them. Any messages from the older party will be ignored.<\/li>\n<li>If a guest over 35 that has not gotten permission arrives, they will be turned away. There will be ID checks.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Breaching any rules may lead to banning from our future events!<\/p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; text_font=&#8221;Poppins||||||||&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section][et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; admin_label=&#8221;Hero Section&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; background_color=&#8221;#160000&#8243; use_background_color_gradient=&#8221;on&#8221; background_color_gradient_direction=&#8221;105deg&#8221; background_color_gradient_stops=&#8221;rgba(0,0,0,0.84) 0%|rgba(122,53,1,0.84) 100%&#8221; background_color_gradient_start=&#8221;rgba(0,0,0,0.84)&#8221; background_color_gradient_end=&#8221;rgba(122,53,1,0.84)&#8221; background_image=&#8221;https:\/\/smilkbh.dk\/smug\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/glitter-2114782_960_720.jpg&#8221; background_blend=&#8221;multiply&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;20px|0px|0px|0px|false|false&#8221; locked=&#8221;off&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_row _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;|||&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; custom_padding__hover=&#8221;|||&#8221;][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; text_font=&#8221;Poppins||||||||&#8221; text_text_color=&#8221;rgba(255,255,255,0.8)&#8221; text_font_size=&#8221;18px&#8221; text_line_height=&#8221;1.8em&#8221; header_font=&#8221;Poppins|600||on|||||&#8221; header_text_color=&#8221;#ffffff&#8221; header_font_size=&#8221;48px&#8221; header_line_height=&#8221;1.4em&#8221; header_3_font=&#8221;Poppins|600|||||||&#8221; header_3_font_size=&#8221;36px&#8221; header_3_line_height=&#8221;1.4em&#8221; background_layout=&#8221;dark&#8221; max_width=&#8221;600px&#8221; module_alignment=&#8221;left&#8221; custom_margin=&#8221;|||&#8221; locked=&#8221;off&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]<h3><span style=\"color: #fff4e2;\">NEW TO SMug<\/span><\/h3>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section][et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;50.546875px|0px|50px|0px|false|false&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_row _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;25.265625px|0px|0|0px|false|false&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;|||&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; custom_padding__hover=&#8221;|||&#8221;][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; text_font=&#8221;Poppins||||||||&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400; color: #fff7ea; font-size: medium;\">The participants at SMug events usually have quite different levels of experience and interests within BDSM. Some have been practising for years, others just bring their curiosity and may even be unsure what roles they desire most. Some <g class=\"gr_ gr_27 gr-alert gr_spell gr_inline_cards gr_disable_anim_appear ContextualSpelling multiReplace\" id=\"27\" data-gr-id=\"27\">identify<\/g> as Tops, Doms or Sadists. Some as bottoms, submissives or masochists. Some as switches and some like other labels and some do not find any of them <g class=\"gr_ gr_25 gr-alert gr_gramm gr_inline_cards gr_disable_anim_appear Grammar multiReplace\" id=\"25\" data-gr-id=\"25\">fitting<\/g>. Whatever category you belong to you are welcome as long as you share our common interest in BDSM!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400; color: #fff7ea; font-size: medium;\">So what to expect at your first SMug event? Well if it\u2019s a party we usually offer to show you around while explaining the basic rules of <g class=\"gr_ gr_21 gr-alert gr_spell gr_inline_cards gr_disable_anim_appear ContextualSpelling multiReplace\" id=\"21\" data-gr-id=\"21\">behavior<\/g> in SMil if you are not already familiar with them. Many times we also facilitate some kind of icebreaker activity that you can join if you want to meet the other guests. Sometimes we encourage our guests to participate in prepared play activities and sometimes we have planned some kinky entertainment for the evening. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400; color: #fff7ea; font-size: medium;\">Some attendants bring a partner (or partners) but many show up looking to meet new people and maybe find a play partner. While you might experience people playing during the evening there is usually also a lot of people that mainly come to socialise and speak with like-minded people. For those who do play, SMil offers both the opportunity of public and private play areas.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section][et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; module_id=&#8221;reveal&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; background_color=&#8221;rgba(32,0,0,0.85)&#8221; background_image=&#8221;https:\/\/smilkbh.dk\/smug\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/plasma-2753321__340.jpg&#8221; background_blend=&#8221;multiply&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;1px|0px|0|0px|false|false&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_row _builder_version=&#8221;4.19.5&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.19.5&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.19.5&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; background_layout=&#8221;dark&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]<h2>ABOUT SMIL<\/h2>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][et_pb_row use_custom_gutter=&#8221;on&#8221; gutter_width=&#8221;1&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;25.734375px|0px|0|0px|false|false&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;|||&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; custom_padding__hover=&#8221;|||&#8221;][et_pb_gallery gallery_ids=&#8221;3938,3947,3946,3943&#8243; show_title_and_caption=&#8221;off&#8221; show_pagination=&#8221;off&#8221; zoom_icon_color=&#8221;#ffffff&#8221; hover_overlay_color=&#8221;rgba(0,0,0,0)&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; filter_brightness=&#8221;69%&#8221; filter_invert=&#8221;7%&#8221; filter_opacity=&#8221;85%&#8221; custom_css_gallery_item=&#8221;-webkit-animation: none !important;||-moz-animation: none !important;||-o-animation: none !important;||-ms-animation: none !important;||animation: none !important;&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][\/et_pb_gallery][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; text_font=&#8221;Poppins||||||||&#8221; text_orientation=&#8221;right&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]<p><span style=\"color: #fff4e2;\"><em>The rooms at SMil <\/em><\/span><\/p>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][et_pb_row _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;|||&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; custom_padding__hover=&#8221;|||&#8221;][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; text_font=&#8221;Poppins||||||||&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400; color: #fff7ea;\">SMil is a Danish BDSM club with divisions in Copenhagen, \u00c5rhus, Odense and Aalborg. SMug is the youth division of SMil Copenhagen. SMil was created to make a safe space to meet peers and practice BDSM so that people didn\u2019t have to rely on meeting strangers from the internet to develop a kinky network and could have access to BDSM rooms and equipment. Generally, a membership is needed to come to the events in SMil but some events are \u201copen\u201d (which means that a membership is not required). To become a member of SMil it is required to go to an introduction. Dates for those can be found on the website <\/span><span style=\"color: #ffcc00;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/smilkbh.dk\" style=\"color: #ffcc99;\">smilkbh.dk<\/a><\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400; color: #fff7ea;\">. If you want to read more about SMil&#8217;s other divisions you can visit <a href=\"http:\/\/sado.dk\" style=\"color: #ffcc99;\">sado.dk<\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400; color: #fff7ea;\">There are two rules at SMil that are good to know: <br \/>1. If the door to a room is closed it means that someone is in it and it is generally not allowed to open it until they come out. <br \/>2. &#8220;Cirkus&#8221; is a shared stopword at SMil. If anyone says that you must stop any activity immediately.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section]\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00a0Rules of SMugRules for SMugWhile our beautiful participants are always well behaved, we&#8217;ve decided that putting it online might make it clearer for people, who has not participated before. 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